Breakup Advice - When is Enough, Enough? | Free Relationship Advice that Kicks Ass!

Friday, March 13th, 2009...11:37 am

Breakup Advice - When is Enough, Enough?

Heartbreak. All of us have experienced it at one time or another. Where is the good breakup advice when you need it?

Here are a few things you need to remember when going through a difficult break up.

It takes time to heal. It will not happen overnight.
Jumping straight into another relationship is the worst thing you could possibly do.
If your relationship lasted 1 month, do not date anyone for 1 month. If you are coming out of a long term relationship, you should wait at least 6 months to enter back into the dating scene.
Do not grieve alone. Call your friends and vent. That’s what they are there for.
Take some time and pamper yourself. If you have just been broken up with, you might not be feeling sexy or wanted. Pamper yourself because you deserve it and you are wonderful, no matter what anyone else says.
Take a class or learn something new to keep your mind off of your ex. This is a great way to occupy your time.
NEVER keep calling or showing up at your ex’s home or work. This is stalking. Breaking up means breaking it off. If you ever want to get over the break up, you simply cannot continue to see your ex.

Take heed of this breakup advice. Each and every day that goes by you will spend less and less time thinking about your breakup, until at last, you won’t be thinking about it at all. Don’t torture yourself by going over and over old love notes, listening to “your song” or rehashing arguments in your mind. This is pointless.

If it’s been a few months are you are still obsessing about the breakup, you might want to consider seeing a licensed therapist. This can often help to releave your pain and stress and help you to move on.

If you are in a relationship and are thinking of breaking up - you might want to read this excellent ebook - Should I Stay or Should I Go? It will help you decide whether or not the relationship is worth keeping.